Afternoon all~

A very short rant here and a little food for your thought.

I’m pretty sure you have been asked many times on what kind of person you would like to befriend or fall in love with.

There is always this kind of discussion among friends — mostly with girls as guys may be a bit shy or not bothered at all with this sort of talk.

Well generally, we all will answer that we want a person with a good heart, no matter the looks. We may mention more plus sides such as hard working, good at sports and so on however the bottom line is that we all want someone who has virtues and simply — a good heart.

For some of you, just like me may answer differently and that is we want a good looking person along with a good heart; beautiful in the inside as well as the outside.

Now when I give this as my answer, you can pretty much guess how people look at me afterwards.

You’ll get replies like, “No one is perfect. You can’t find a human that flawless. That is so greedy. You only care about the looks…”


I fail to see why there can only be plain looks BUT good hearted OR beautiful BUT nasty attitude.

Because what I see nowadays are people with not very good looks AND an uglier heart.

If we have that possibility of having an unsightly appearance and an even hideous attitude, there should be a chance we can also find pleasant face and wholesome heart combination.

This quest is not going to be a walk in the park but I think it’s worth while.. And I should start shaping myself to be beautiful in and out to show that it is possible. Because using that whole beauty in the inside is just an excuse for bums not to take care of their body and appearances.

… I may contradict myself on this matter in the future however, for now this is my thinking.

What say you? :D


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5 comments so far

1.  Soul Rosen
April 9th, 2013 at 10:45 am

Hey, if i can do it then you can do it lol, trust me on that. and pick a good dude or chick.

2.  Ms Aya
April 11th, 2013 at 3:25 pm

Dear Soul

Thanks. I will definitely go for the ultimate dude! (Laughs)

Wish you all the best too! ^^

3.  Dino-chan
April 12th, 2013 at 11:45 pm

Beauty from the outside or inside are actually depends on the person himself or herself.
My side, all I see is pretty/good looking = bad attitude. Otherwise = worse.

If I’m able to found good looking/pretty with good hearted = taken. If otherwise in term of look but good hearted = majority are bad. The good ones are so called incompatible with you.

Good looking/pretty with bad attitude = popular like sh*t, attention seeker. EXCEPTION to few people among this group. Not all.
How about otherwise in look but bad attitude? = GTH ~ -_-

When the time is right, and you are able to meet your real Mr Right, your heart will show you he is the most perfect for you, even if other ppl think is not. :D

4.  Zachary Irlbeck
September 26th, 2013 at 5:57 pm


5.  Zachary Irlbeck
September 26th, 2013 at 6:02 pm

||accidentally tapped submit|| anyway be careful. No relationship will ever last on love alone because all love is impermanet. It should be based on things like mutual respect and kindness. Overtime most relationships become more of a partnership then a romance anyway. So don’t let your mind fool you into committing to a relationship just on that. If course when it comes down to love and infatuation reason goes out the window. ( sPeaking from experience)


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