Mood: Talkative

Mood: Talkative

Yo~Ho~

Today, I put on make-up! I applied a bit of foundation, powder and lip tint on my sheepish face~! ↓

Therefore, please don’t get the idea that I have flawless skin based on the photo above. It’s make-up; a mask. (Laughs)

In fact right now, my skin is in a very horrible condition. There are lots of tiny pimples popping all over my face and it’s scarily red! <OAO>

I wonder…Is this because of the chocolates I’ve been eating excessively or the scorching hot weather — OR both? <´•ω•`>lll

Anyway as you can figure out, this is why I applied make-up today. Also partly because I don’t want people asking me questions like, “What is wrong with your face?”, “Why is it so red and sore?” and so on.

Speaking of which, don’t you just hate it when people ask you stupid and touchy questions especially regarding your physical appearance?

I get lots of annoying questions about my physical appeal; the kind of questions that makes me want to answer with my fist.

Such as:

“Why are you so thin?”

“Why is your face like that; so red and sore?”

“How come I can see your veins?” ← What the fuck!?

“Why is your teeth like that?”

“Why is your hair so fine and thin?”

The answers are not hard to fathom out — I’m born like this!

The thing about these people is they pick out the most hurtful, touchy areas to press on which people don’t like to talk about.

Who enjoys narrating why they are fat, ugly and not perfect? Who likes to talk about their defection which they are born with?

And it’s not like these inquisitors want to help you. They’ll just say, “Oh..I see.” and do nothing while there are others who would carry on pressing on your flaws and annoy you to the fullest. Some may even give you negative remarks to hurt your feelings on purpose! Somehow they always have the eyes to spot your flaws but say nothing about the good points you have, notice that?

Sure, we can tell the person to shut the fuck up. However he/she will defend by saying “I was just asking! Don’t have to be so touchy! Sheesh!” thus making you feel guilty for being too sensitive over such a harmless question.

I wonder why they ask that kind of questions. What can they gain from it? I understand that sales consultants will be delighted to know why your face is pimply because it’s so that she can sell you a product. As for friends…

Here are my assumptions: ↓

  1. They are really concerned about your well-being.
  2. They meant to insult you. They can’t bring themselves to do a frontal insult so they use innocent, apparently harmless questions to hint you. [Eg: "Eeeyer! Why is your nose like that?" (It's ugly)] Then like cowards, they hide behind the “I was just asking!” cry.
  3. Hurt your feelings by letting you know they discovered your flaws or weaknesses.
  4. A topic for them to gossip about.
  5. Amuse themselves by awaiting what kind of answers you can give them.

Heh…

If they are genuinely concerned, you can somehow tell that they are. On the other hand, you know who is trying to tick you off on purpose.

I think this is something universal. In every group of friends, there’s at least one douche bag that everyone hates because he/she is so annoying. Whenever that douche bag is seen approaching from afar with that stupid grin, one of you would alarm the rest of the members, “Pss! Fucking (Insert name here) is coming!”

And then everyone starts grumbling and rolling their eyes.

I have no idea why some people keep a douche bag in their circle of friends when they hate that person so mighty much. Perhaps it’s like what Dane Cook has said — that douche bag is just there for everyone to hate the guts out of him.

As for me, I like to break away from people whom I can’t get along with for I really can’t see a point in keeping them. Not to say I want friends with benefits but rather I want friends whom I can talk to easily and not ought to attack me.

Oh well, this is life. <u_u>

Thank goodness I haven’t been around these kind of people off late. I no longer am bothered by them nor think a slightest bit about them. However, I heard that a certain somebody out there still bitches about me.

Baa~<u_u>

I guess all of you have your share of moments with these kind of people, ne? <^-^>lll

Anyway, today — I went to try on some dresses~! ↓

I like all of them however, they are too expensive! One piece is about RM100+!

<OAO> !! e.rai.kot.cha !!

So I ended up going home without any new clothes. (Laughs nervously) At least I got a new book to read~

Baa~ <´•ω•`>

Alrighty~ Sheep has to go now. My donuts are waiting for me~ (Laughs)

Everyone~

May I know what questions do you consider to be stupid and annoying? Let me know so that next time, I know what not to ask. (Laughs nervously)

Sheep is not perfect and might get carried away sometimes. <^-^>lll

PS: Do I look like a cat? A couple of people said that I do. <o_o> Nupo!

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9 comments so far

1.  Genie
January 15th, 2010 at 8:57 am

I know exactly what you mean! I get those questions by people all the time. Especially adults/old people >_>;
I ran across your blog, while googling the “LG ice cream phone”. I liked your entries very much. My name is Genie btw, nice to meet you ^__^

2.  lily;;
January 15th, 2010 at 10:04 am

Wow. I completely know what you mean! But, if you put more make-up on your already sore skin wouldn’t it be worse when you take it off? (Happened to me… hehe)

Sometimes I ask the same question, WHY DO THEY KEEP THE DOUCHE BAG IN OUR CIRCLE?!? Maybe they don’t have the *guts* to tell them their problems. AND well, instead they just gossip about her… SO, I guess that some of my *friends* are douche bags as well… From what I know, once you leave their circle they bitch about you.

To tell the truth, I don’t have many true friends. Only one. (This is starting to feel like a blog post…haha)

3.  Pixy
January 15th, 2010 at 1:55 pm

All these annoying questions … even my mom said that TOO OFTEN … I just ignore it …

4.  Ms Aya
January 15th, 2010 at 5:42 pm

Dear Genie

Nice to meet you too~
Adults and old folks are like that. Relatives also tend to ask that kind of questions. But I guess it’s not so bad however, coming from friends may not be nice because you might not know if they are trying to insult you or something. (x_x)

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Dear Lily

Hello~
Yes, my skin became even more reddish upon removing the make-up. That’s why today I didn’t want to apply anything on my face. (x_x) Furthermore, I don’t like it when after I wash of the make-up, my face then have lots of white heads. It’s like the make-up dirties my face.

You are right. Some people don’t have the guts to be truthful to their friends as well as not truthful to themselves. If you don’t like the person, don’t be a hypocrite and force yourself to be with that person and end up complaining about him/her, right?

Well..It’s always good to have at least 1 true friend than a dozen of bad ones. Especially those who have the tendency to bitch. Sheep no likey those type too!

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Dear Pix

I sense that Pixy gets a lot of stress and pressure from his mother.. (T_T)

5.  krayle
January 17th, 2010 at 10:15 am

Sheep-chan ohayou~~

i realised that for me it’s not so much the question rather than the person asking it. but perhaps it works both ways because the kind of questions that they ask and the way that they ask it show what kind of person that they are.

currently the thing that irritates me to the point where i feel like whipping out a dagger and stabbing the person, is this particular convo:

person: what are you doing now (in terms of studies)?
me: english literature at NTU.
person: oh so you want to be a teacher next time?

NO I FUCKING DO NOT WANT TO BE A TEACHER AND RUIN ALL THOSE YOUNG LIVES. I HAVE GREATER ASPIRATIONS THAN THAT. why can’t they freaking ask if i want to be a writer, or a book-reviewer??? isn’t that infinitely more related to my course????

such is the sad life of english lit students in singapore, having assumptions made about them all the time!!

enough of my ranting, i have no idea why people would make nasty comments about Sheep-chan!! there is a quote that pple only hate you if they are jealous of you, and i guess that would be pretty true for your case because Sheep-chan is so pretty (from the pictures above!) and because Sheep-chan’s slim figure is probably the cause of envy for many model-wannabes out there! it’s good that you have learned to ignore those idiots who have nth better to do but badmouth pple who are better than themselves!!

okay long ranty comment, shall stop now! have a blessed day Sheep!

6.  Ms Aya
January 17th, 2010 at 2:21 pm

Dear Krayle

True. Somehow when it comes from a friend you like — it wouldn’t sound as offensive as those coming from other people.

(Laughs) That kind of comebacks can be quite annoying as well. Especially when it happens way too often! (x__x) It’s like — ‘Just because I’m doing this, not necessarily I’m going to be that’ kind of thing.

Eto, I have no idea too. Perhaps I’m not liked by many or my flaws are really sticking out like a sore thumb. Or I said something that may have offended them thus the revenge.

Anyway, sheep makes mistakes too so I’m not going to complain and say I don’t deserve this kind of treatment. (Laughs)

Ja, Krayle~ Enjoy your day~ Oh! And please refrain from stabbing annoying people! (Laughs) (^v^)/

7.  Pixy
January 17th, 2010 at 5:36 pm

Sheep,

Well, as the only child in the family … Parents will give the best to the the child … and EXPECT best thing from the child either …

Example : Education results … must get A A A A …

8.  dino-chan
January 20th, 2010 at 9:54 pm

HELLO! Finally can online T_T
Eto~

I remember, someone (my friend) BECAUSE wanted to sell some cosmetic products to me (her job-related)so after few years never meet up, she called me out.

I thought just for reunion purpose, eventually she asked ” ur…you less make up wan ar? why your face like that wan?”
as the conversation goes…
” why dun I intro this to you? Look at my face…bla bla bla, if you dun take care of your face, you cannot keep your bf…”

=.=”"”"”"”"”"”"

I hate salesmen/women ;(
no matter they did it purposely or nope.
*cries*

9.  Ms Aya
January 24th, 2010 at 5:23 pm

Dear Pixy

Oh….That’s the reason.
Since we’re talking about Pix, then ‘A’ is not the highest rank.
Pixy aims for SSS! (Laughs)
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Dear Dino

Y~ay! Dino can online~

Sou ne. Some sales people can be very annoying and the questions they ask can be too blunt and hurtful. I don’t like that some of them would say anything and make promises (that they can’t keep) just to make a sale.

(Hugs) Dino, don’t cry~! (TAT)/

 

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