Are You The Jealous Type?

Posted by: Ms Ayain Ms Aya's Papers
20
Nov
Mood - Energetic!

Mood - Energetic

Good evening~!

I didn’t think I would blog so soon but seeing how lucid the previous entry is, I feel it doesn’t make a good ‘welcome entry’ to the blog. (Laughs nervously)

Hence, the high spirited sheep is here to spew her current thoughts~ <—ω—> (Laughs)

Today, 2 people talked to me about ‘jealousy’ and how ugly it makes a person. We talked briefly about the topic so, I feel the conversation has not ended and that’s why I’m here to complete it! <^v^>/ (Laughs)

Before anything else, let’s go through the meaning of ‘jealousy’~.

There are 3 types of jealousy according to the dictionary. ↓

I’m sure you have encountered people who have the above’s traits. (Please focus on ‘jealous’, not jazzy — not jeans!)

Or, you might be one of them. I don’t know which type of jealousy you possess but I hope you aren’t one to be jealous of someone else’s success. Especially if that person is your friend or family member. <`A´>

Instead of being jealous over their success, I think you should be glad for them. After all, they had a long and rough journey towards their success. A little envy can’t be helped however, don’t let it turn you into a horrible green-eyed monster to the point that all you ever think about is spitefulness.

I know a woman who is quite a jealous person. I can’t be certain if she’s really jealous or simply negative but whenever my mum tells her good news about our family, she will always say something spiteful in return which makes the conversation very unpleasant.

If my mum was bragging and talking in such a condescending manner, perhaps the woman didn’t like it thus a spiteful comeback. However, it wasn’t any of that sort. <T_T>

Anyway, even though you feel envious — let it be the good type of envy that motivates you to strive harder towards your own success, instead of sabotaging or waiting for your friend to collapse beneath your level. THIS is a very disgusting wish! <`A´>/

Moving on to the second type of jealousy (ie resentful of someone whom you regard as a sexual rival)

Baa… <u_u>

I think it’s very normal, right? This type of jealousy is based on insecurity and fear that your lover might leave you for a better partner. The feelings are genuinely out of love, then again — I don’t think a person should be envious of the rival over the fact that she has better qualities. What is important is your lover should remain faithful. There are so many chicks out there and you can’t keep them away just to make your man see you and only you.

In his work place, there’s bound to be a hot bimbo flashing her titties in front of his office room. /(  . )(  . )\

You just can’t eliminate them. In other words, you can’t really blame others. Your bond with him has to be strong. You might envy her generous amount of assets and her intelligence though and it should be only this much. (Laughs)

Finally, we have the third definition of jealousy: Very protective of your rights or possession.

Mmm..This definition leans more towards ‘unfairness’, doesn’t it? For example you feel jealous that your undeserving friend got the scholarship instead of you who studied day and night.

It doesn’t justify your efforts hence you feel jealous your friend got it with ease. <.__.>{?]

Baa~ <^-^>lll

Now, I have a confession to make~! (Laughs)

I used to be a jealous kid. I didn’t envy other people’s success but I had the tendency to be jealous when the person whom I like a lot spent more time with someone else. When I was small, I was jealoused that my mum spent more time with my cousin and seem to favor her more than me. I would sulk in one corner and get scolded for behaving like this. (Laughs)

Eventually I grew out of it after realizing how stupid such a behavior is and ever since then, I hardly had such feelings because I learned to look at other things to keep myself happy and contented so much so I become blind and numb to this sort of feeling.

I’m not sure if people were ever jealoused about me. I have not heard from them nor took notice of their actions. Usually I take it that I’m merely imagining stuff. However, it would be nice and peaceful if there isn’t. (Laughs)

After all, sheep has nothing spectacular. I’m just an ordinary O type girl~. (Laughs nervously)

Baa~

[ . . . ]

Truthfully, I think I will be a very possessive sheep once I’m involved in a serious relationship. <u_u>

[ . . . ]

The question is… <T_T>

[ . . . ]

What kind of monster will I be? <^v^>lll (Laughs)

De, what kind of jealousy do you possess?

Are you the ‘spiteful, sabotaging’ type? The ‘possessive and longing for other people’s qualities’? Or the ‘It’s not fair! I’m better!’ type?

Come on!

Be honest! (Cheers!)

Christmas is coming! You want a PS3, don’t you!? <OAO>/

Note: ↑ Julius~! I find aloof men to be so attractive! I think it’s because I’m the possessive type so I can’t stand those who easily give themselves away to just about anyone. \<≥A≤>/

!! ROAR !!

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9 comments so far

1.  kioko
November 21st, 2009 at 8:46 am

I think I am the jealous type too, like someone who have/ got something really nice or got a better score etc etc, I’ll say to her “ahhhh I am soooo jealous” but it’s just a plain feeling and I wont be spiteful towards her or anything (although in my heart I would keep thinking I WANT IT!!!!)
And like two of my friends have actually been to see KAT-TUN in real life, I would be jealous but since they’re my friends, I tend to feel happy towards them more hehe

I guess I am quite possessive of my friends too, like you in a way, but I’m improving =]

2.  dino-chan
November 21st, 2009 at 10:31 am

“It’s not fair! I’m better ” !!!!

That’s me LOL

This world is unfair but my situation just makes it super unfair. ^^”"” I hate it a lot.
I am the one who need to hold the responsible, meanwhile that person just dun care, put (that person)personal stuffs priority, but still can go to the next semester.
That person can get away by saying ” i dunno ”
As for me I can’t

*cries*

3.  Pixy
November 21st, 2009 at 9:19 pm

I more in the ‘Very protective of your rights or possession’ kind of jealous ….

I always think in this world is really unfair … capitalism makes the world population full of imbalance …

4.  SandageBlackbox
November 22nd, 2009 at 12:34 am

I’m not a jealous guy, but I’ve always felt this life is sort of unfair in some aspects, for example:

Why on earth should I stand and bear with people (namely, my boss @ the office and his superiors) ordering me around when I know and have plenty of evidence that they’re just retarded and totally not capable to correctly carry out with their chores??, I mean, if you work for an american company and you have to daily deal with americans you should at least have a decent level of english proficiency right?, then how do you overlook and forgive your boss’ existence upon this earth when she makes mistakes like this in front of the very mexican branch’s chairman??!!:

chairnman: So, how did you have that orthodontic done, or haven’t you?

myboss: Yes, I did, my theets (???) look better, don’t you agree? (grins to show her teeth to the chairman).

chairman: (Looks straight to her cleavage)

Now, am I happy to be ordered around by this kind of people?, am I jealous of her…yes sir! the hell I am! :lol:

5.  SandageBlackbox
November 24th, 2009 at 2:40 pm

Titties are everywhere and being honest, there are pairs of them that refuse to go unnoticed. Please spare us a little peek!!.

6.  Ms Aya
November 24th, 2009 at 2:58 pm

Dear kioko
Oh! The ‘me too’ type?
I think that kind of jealousy is pretty harmless and normal. But it’s best not to have them because you’re depressing yourself unnecessarily, right?
Hehe, I think I’ll be very possessive once I have a steady lover.
Oh ya, I forgot to mention this about Kat-tun — Damn, Taguchi is so brave to leap off 10m high into the swimming pool! (o_o)
I wonder if Nakamaru felt jealous at that time? Or more towards disappointment..?
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Dear Dino-chan, Pix and Sand
Ya, sometimes people can just get away without responsibility. But feeling jealous that they get things easily is a but silly because you know sooner or later, they will fall. Ultimately, justice will prevail, correct?
We deem many people to be unworthy of their position because they got it in stroke of luck (or by dirty methods) but as long as you stay true to good virtues and rules, you’ll be rewarded greatly because you truly have it.
Those who got through without skills and talent will not survive as far as you.

Sand, are you jealous that she has boobs? (Laughs)

7.  sandageblackbox
November 25th, 2009 at 2:59 pm

No, I’m not, but I have to admit I do feel a lot better qualified to make her job, I would never say “theets” (tits??) instead of “teeth”, even the chairman had to hold the laugh back .

8.  Ms Aya
November 26th, 2009 at 6:17 pm

(Laughs)
See? It’s not that unfair after all. Everybody has some good and qualified points in them.
Haha! Nothing to be jealous about other people! (^v^)/

9.  kioko
November 28th, 2009 at 1:30 am

*nods nods*
haha the “me too” type?!
I would try not to feel depressed over things then. Ohh yeahh Taguchi is so kakkoii! I guess Maru would just thought “hmm well he’s such a showoff” I dunno but I’d feel like that if I am Maru lol

 

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