Archive for August 22nd, 2009
Mood - Merry

Mood - Merry

Not very long ago, I skimped through my autograph book that was signed by my buddies from the National Service camp. They jot down their contact numbers and left messages like “Wish You Luck in Life”, “Be Happy!”, “Keep in Touch!”, “Friends Forever!” — the kind of words you can find in greeting cards. As a bonus, they also wrote their first impressions about me. <^-^*>

(Laughs) Impressions… <u_u>

This is something we all like to know. I’m sure you do get curious and want to know what do people think of you at the beginning and whether you succeeded in making a good and strong impact to people’s minds. We want people to think nicely of us at first sight because only then we are able to win their favors.

First impression is everything to initiate a good bonding. By means, we want to discrete people who ‘I-want-to-meet-again’ and simply the ones to stay away from. We all observe, criticize, judge and categorize people in such a way.

It is our nature to be judgmental. <T_T>

Although some people denies it, the fact remains. Or perhaps a more modest word to be used in this situation: Just being cautious.

On the first meeting, you wouldn’t even think of dating a man who talks a mountain of his ex-girlfriend because you can tell that throughout the acquaintance, he’s going to drown you with stories of his ex-girlfriend. You’d get the impression that this man dwells too much in the past and it’s not going to be healthy for you. Just like you wouldn’t want a man who keeps stuttering to be the guest speaker of your upcoming event.

The importance of giving out good impressions needs no emphasis as I trust you all are already aware of it. It could earn you a friend, a lover or a business opportunity at the same time, loose them all –  Results of first impressions.

(Laughs nervously) I’m actually wondering if I’m doing a good job in making significant and positive impressions. Despite my ignorance towards people and their feelings, sheep needs a job therefore, sheep will just have to hang in there and gulp everything down the throat. <¬__¬>lll

I guess the key to creating an incredible impression is to be honest — at all times. Be yourself.

Being yourself doesn’t mean you can get away with your bad habits. You should study the situation and then act accordingly; behave appropriately.

Yosh~! Sheep has to work hard in being human! <`A´>/

So anyway, on your side — How do you impress a person whom you meet for the first time? And what do people normally think of you?

Do they later discover that they were wrong about you when they first met you?

In addition, what do you want them to think of you and what NOT to? <.__.>{?]

Baa…Talk to me~

The flow of this entry is bad so, I apologize. Sheep’s mind is very muddled and can’t seem to focus. Maybe it’s because I have not eaten dinner yet so the brain is drying up. (Laughs nervously)

PS: I changed my ice-cream phone’s look~! ↓

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While traveling, some of the flower petals came off so I removed everything. A~ah well, I like the way it is right now. Simple and easy. <^-^>/~