Yes, I know. Our perfect ideal will never be 100% fulfilled because we ourselves are unsure what ‘perfect’ means. Even if we do, chances in looking for our perfect and ideal partner are as slim as a tracing paper. (Tears)

even though some look really fierce and have big mouths when single, they completly change their personalities when they start dating someone…

True. I’ve read about grumpy women who were furious and easily lose control but after meeting their ultimate soul mate, they simmers themselves. I think it’s the same for men too. (Laughs)

I don’t really understand the battle of the sexes. Why they fight and catergorize themselves from one another?

Although sheep is a female, sheep can’t fathom a lady’s mind frame. (Tears)

I think you know better than me! (Laughs)

Dear Soon

Wow.. That’s good for you!

It proves that overweight people can be healthy and active as well as a thin person. (Laughs nervously)

Ha!, not really. Look, we wish for our soulmates to be perfect, to meet all our expectations and we expect our soulmate to have the looks we’ve always wanted… but, that’s impossible, if such a guy/girl really exists (and that’s not very likely), the chance to find him/her would be 1 among billions.

You’ll always end up dating someone different from what you dreamed of, thing is, you don’t really care, coz you can finally give those old dreams a real human shape, and you fill in the blanks of the puzzle with your sweetie’s personality while utterly forgetting about your old idea of a fairy tale prince.

“But don’t you think this is why guys and girls always argue about their sexes? The fact that it seems not fair because women always win and men has to give in? What’s you tick on that?”

Well, I’ve always agreed that women are more intelligent than men, and maybe that’s why it’s been silently decided that women have clearance to have it their ways. However, this doesn’t always happen and there are many women out there who never get a say when deciding things, even though some look really fierce and have big mouths when single, they completly change their personalities when they start dating someone…

Personally, I like girls with brains inside their skulls ha ha ha, they say 2 heads think better than 1 and I agree with that. I won’t let my partner to have it her way all the time, as well as I won’t claim to be the alfa male whose word is unquestionable. That’s the rational side of the coin of course, the sentimental (irrational) side is another story… it’s been scientifically proven that men do love more than women and that means men will always be indulgent with their girls, and that’s why some girl take advantage of this situation. This is something even cave men must’ve discussed ha ha ha, we’ll never get to an end.

..but!, in the end, when you really fall in love with someone you stop caring about things such as weight, height or bra size. It’s happened to me so I can safely say, no, it doesn’t affect.

I assent to that. At the same time I’m scared that I might start falling in love with the opposite type of guy that I’ve been longing for!

(Cries) Don’t you feel scared that all this while you like girls who are slim and nice then suddenly, you start liking the opposite? This is just an example by the way.

Oh well… As you said, once you fall in love — all this flaws does not matter…

if it’s a guy picking on a girl then I’d have some not-so-kind words to say to him.

Very wise! (Salutes)

Guys picking on girls is truly a despicable act! Just like Santino who picks on the divas!

But don’t you think this is why guys and girls always argue about their sexes? The fact that it seems not fair because women always win and men has to give in? What’s you tick on that?

I’m happy that you’re concern about my health. I appreciate it very much and in return… I wish you go well with … P.J! \(^v^*)/(Laughs)

Here the answers to your questions:

-Does a girl/guy’s weight affects your cricteria in choosing friends and a life partner?

I think the natural question would be yes, since we all have our own personal interests and tastes… but!, in the end, when you really fall in love with someone you stop caring about things such as weight, height or bra size. It’s happened to me so I can safely say, no, it doesn’t affect.

-Have you been intimidated because fo your size? If so, how did you overcome it?

Never, I’m a lucky guy, nobody has ever made fun of me because of my looks, though my friends are always making light of me because of my utter lack of luck with girls…

-What do you think of people who demeans people according to their looks and body structure?

They’re brainless dicks.

-Honestly, what would you do if you see someone being a victim due to his/her appearance?

That depends on the situation, if a girl is picking on some other girl I’d have to let it pass since it’s not good for a guy to get involved in ladies’ affairs. If it’s a guy picking on another guy I’ll let it pass too, but if it’s a guy picking on a girl then I’d have some not-so-kind words to say to him.

Honestly, you don’t look fat at all, in fact you look thin. Everyone’s free to do with their bodies shit and no one should mind about it, but I’ve come to like you very much and I just wanna say, please don’t over do it ok?, you might get sick. People are mean by nature, and if they don’t pick on you because of your looks, they will pick on you for other reasons.